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According to OkCupid, the pandemic has led to some changes in the way we pursue relationships – including being less willing to date people who hold opposing political views, writes Guardian columnist Arwa Mahdawi

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A study found that 76% of people dating have either ghosted or been ghosted. Why is this considered acceptable?

Published: 11 Sep 2023 Published: 11 Sep 2023 April 2023

Even if you’re ‘on the apps’, it feels pretty hard to meet people these days

Maddie Thomas

Dating in the digital age has become increasingly fraught. But there’s hope for app skeptics like myself

Published: 1 Apr 2023 Published: 1 Apr 2023 December 2022

Finally, women are calling out toxic online dates. Now to target the apps themselves

Nancy Jo Sales

Facebook groups are outing male misconduct. But shouldn’t dating platforms be doing much more to help protect users? asks author Nancy Jo Sales

Published: 28 Dec 2022 Published: 28 Dec 2022 August 2022 Swipe right: the decade that changed dating Justin Myers

LGBTQ+ people blazed a trail with swipe culture, which fulfils a genuine need for those who are less confident or conventional, says writer Justin Myers

Published: 18 Aug 2022 Published: 18 Aug 2022 Swipe right: the decade that changed dating Annie Lord Published: 17 Aug 2022 Published: 17 Aug 2022 Swipe right: the decade that changed dating Sasha Mistlin Published: 15 Aug 2022 Published: 15 Aug 2022 March 2022

From Anna Delvey to the Tinder Swindler: why do we fall for the TV scammers?

Nancy Jo Sales

Shows like Netflix’s Inventing Anna are hits because they reflect the unreality of a world that has normalised fakeness, says author Nancy Jo Sales

Published: 8 Mar 2022 Published: 8 Mar 2022 December 2021

Apps promised a sexual revolution but they have just made dating weird

Rachel Connolly

A new book suggests that, for single people, technology has made dating a strange, isolated experience, asks journalist Rachel Connolly

Published: 28 Dec 2021 Published: 28 Dec 2021 August 2021

My radical love experiment shows there is light at the end of pandemic dating – and it isn’t a laptop screen

Patrick Lenton

As I slid into her DMs, I entered the dystopian nightmare of romance across hard borders. But love can grow in the most infertile and unlikely soils

Published: 31 Aug 2021 Published: 31 Aug 2021

Apps promised to revolutionize dating. But for women they’re mostly terrible

Nancy Jo Sales Published: 17 May 2021 Published: 17 May 2021

Please, please, please stop talking about pizza on dating apps

Clare Finney Published: 1 May 2021 Published: 1 May 2021 November 2020

Lockdown lesbianism and not sleeping with the enemy – the biggest Covid dating trends

Arwa Mahdawi

According to OkCupid, the pandemic has led to some changes in the way we pursue relationships – including being less willing to date people who hold opposing political views, writes Guardian columnist Arwa Mahdawi

Published: 10 Nov 2020 Published: 10 Nov 2020 February 2020

Violent men are to blame, not Tinder. But online dating comes with risk

Barbara Ellen After the horrific murder of Grace Millane, it’s worth reflecting on safety measures for dating Published: 22 Feb 2020 Published: 22 Feb 2020

There will be no love for dating apps until they change their toxic cultures

Nichi Hodgson

Workplace allegations against Badoo reflect an industry that all too often treats both its staff and users unfairly at best, says sex and relationships author Nichi Hodgson